Get Refusal
Legal and Practical Tools

By Adv. Liron Yitzhak Elmaliach | Updated: 2026 | Reading time: approx. 8 minutes

In Israel, Jewish marriage and divorce are governed by religious law and adjudicated by Rabbinical Courts. A Jewish marriage can only be dissolved by a Get — a specific religious divorce document that the husband must grant and the wife must accept. When one party refuses, the other can be trapped in the marriage for years.

A person whose spouse refuses to grant or accept a Get is called an Aguna (a "chained" woman) or Mesurban Get. Israeli law has developed significant tools to address this — both through the Rabbinical Courts and through civil litigation.

Rabbinical Court Sanctions

The Rabbinical Courts Jurisdiction (Marriage and Divorce) Law grants the Rabbinical Court substantial enforcement powers against a Get refuser:

  • Travel ban The court can confiscate the refuser's passport and bar them from leaving Israel until the Get is granted.
  • Driving licence restriction The court can suspend the refuser's driving licence.
  • Occupational licence restriction The court can restrict or revoke professional licences (medical, legal, business licences).
  • Bank account freeze The court can freeze accounts and restrict financial activity.
  • Imprisonment (compulsion order) In serious cases, the Rabbinical Court can issue a "compulsion order" (Psak Kfiyah) directing the husband to grant the Get. Refusal to comply can result in imprisonment of up to 5 years. Importantly, there is no maximum total imprisonment — a husband can be imprisoned repeatedly until he grants the Get.
  • Public naming The court can order the refuser's name to be published publicly, which creates community pressure.

Civil Tort Lawsuit

Parallel to the Rabbinical Court proceedings, a person suffering from Get refusal can file a civil tort claim in Family Court under the heading of "emotional suffering" (Agmat Nefesh). Israeli courts have awarded significant damages in such cases.

Typical damages awarded₪50,000–600,000+
Cases of extreme prolonged refusalUp to ₪1,000,000+

The financial threat of a civil lawsuit can sometimes achieve what Rabbinical Court proceedings alone cannot. Running both tracks simultaneously maximises pressure on the refusing party.

Strategy: Using All Tracks Simultaneously

Experienced lawyers in this field recommend pursuing multiple approaches simultaneously rather than waiting for one to succeed:

Track 1: Rabbinical Court — Apply for a ruling that the refuser is obligated to grant the Get, and then escalate to a compulsion order and sanctions.
Track 2: Civil tort claim — File simultaneously in Family Court for emotional suffering damages. Even ongoing proceedings create financial pressure.
Track 3: Financial pressure via divorce proceedings — Aggressive litigation in the financial aspects of the divorce (alimony, property division) can create incentive for resolution.
Track 4: Community resources — Community organisations, rabbinical leadership, and social pressure can sometimes achieve results where legal tools have not yet succeeded.

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